I usually heal much faster i get over relationships fastly enough i dont dwell on it once its gone. I'm just used to being independent on my own and can pretty much function without a man even with a bf there i reserve my own space just for me i dont like to be crowded on i dont demand so much attention or physical connectedness as in everyday, nope. I'm quite happy doing my own things, my own hobbies enjoy na ko kaayo so it helps if you do not 100% give it all to the person and reserve some of that for you so that when it comes to breakup time, its not difficult simply because you were never dependent on the person for your own happiness. Once kasi you give it all, that becomes much more harder to undo. So reserve that space for you cause when the going gets tough and you have to breakup, it wont be as bad and moving on becomes so much easier.