Girls, kanus.a man ma-consider na pinugos ang interest sa lalaki ninyo?

[Jumperman]

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To help you understand my question better I'll give you a situation.

Classmates mo sa lalaki, nagka-tupad mo during one meeting nya nangayo siya number nimo, which you in turn gave. So he texts you and asks if he can ask you out for snacks or coffee or whatever. You turn him down because you are busy (or for whatever reason). The guy seems to be a nice guy, dili hassle na pagka-tao. You consistently show him your disinterest and yet he still keeps texting you, waiting until you try to get to know him. Herein lies my question: IS HIS PERSISTENCE A PLUS OR IS IT A MINUS? How would you react in such a situation? Samokan mo sa lalaki kay di siya kasabot nga di ka intresado? Ma-impress mo nga naningkamot gyud siya na magka-ilhanay mo? Or ma-luoy nalang mo niya kay namugos gyud siya sa iyang kaugalingon bisag gipa-klaro na nimo nga wa kay interest? Please enlighten me girls. I'm sure di ra ako ang lalaki na ganahan maka-dungog sa inyong mga tubag hehe.

[PraiseMe]

hmmm dont judge him first we might not know what his interest too basin nangita lng sad cya ug friend,try to know him lng no malice,wala man tngali dautan kung friends lng .

[Jumperman]

Unsa diay inyo pagsabot kung hagdon mo coffee or whatever? Wala ra, friendly ra? Dili ba na sign nga nagpakita siya nga interested siya nimo?

[yvonne6]

ang lalaki dili mag waste sa iyang time kung friendship ra gyud ang gusto. mao nay giingon nga we have too many friends na gyud. kami sang mga babay, (nako lang ha, personally) ug diko ganahan nimo, i turn down gyud taka, para dili nako ma waste akong time and yours. it may come to a point nga ma impress ka pero depende sad sa pagka persuasive sa taw, naay uban nga maka annoy na. depende sad sa babay, naay mga babay nga ganahan silag lalaki nga silay mag gukod kay nay challenge kung makuha nila, u have to know that girl better kung unsa iyang personality, before u make a move. i believe everyone has a weakness, start from there bro

[Jumperman]

So imong pasabot, in short, kung mu-hatag ka number kay OK ra? Posible na nga mu-hatag mo ug number bisag di mo intresado?

[shey0811]

Just give him a chance.. Go ahead, go out with him..Anyway, it's just for taking snacks...By that time, you'll get to know him and probably realize some common ground..Chill lang...People are interesting..we can learn from them...